Docs for SERVER-35893: Update $out to accept new syntax

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This work is to update the parser (hopefully implemented with IDL) to accept the new $out syntax. However, we will reject any combination of options that differs from the old $out (specifically, "dropTarget" must be true and "mode" must be "insert").

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