Fix the exclusion tags for the change stream response deadline test. Exclude the suite in sharded clusters altogether, and remove all more-fine grained specific tags to control which sharded cluster passthroughs can be used.
Also exclude the suite from TSAN/ASAN/UBSAN runs because they tend to be very slow and this suite is somewhat timing-related.

This should fix BF-44486.

Excluding the test for sharded variants should not reduce coverage greatly, because there also exists another dedicated test for the functionality in a sharded cluster: `jstests/noPassthrough/query/change_streams/change_stream_response_deadline_sharded.js`.