[SBE] Fix various $changeStream tests timing out

Many tests in the SBE build variant that exercise sharding fail with

[js_test:lookup_change_stream_post_image_compound_shard_key] assert.soon failed: () => changeStream.hasNext() The hang analyzer is automatically called in assert.soon functions. If you are *expecting* assert.soon to possibly fail, call assert.soon with {runHangAnalyzer: f

A non-exhaustive list of these tests in jstests/sharding/:

• jstests/sharding/change_stream_chunk_migration.js
• jstests/sharding/change_stream_empty_apply_ops.js
• jstests/sharding/change_stream_metadata_notifications.js
• jstests/sharding/change_stream_transaction_sharded.js
• jstests/sharding/change_streams_shards_start_in_sync.js
• jstests/sharding/change_streams_unsharded_becomes_sharded.js
• jstests/sharding/change_streams/lookup_change_stream_post_image_compound_shard_key.js
• jstests/sharding/change_streams/resume_change_stream_on_subset_of_shards.js
• jstests/sharding/change_streams/lookup_change_stream_post_image_hashed_shard_key.js
• jstests/sharding/change_streams_delete_in_txn_produces_correct_doc_key.js
• jstests/sharding/change_streams/lookup_change_stream_post_image_id_shard_key.js
• jstests/sharding/change_stream_read_preference.js
• jstests/sharding/change_stream_enforce_max_time_ms_on_mongos.js
• jstests/sharding/change_streams_unsharded_update_resume.js
• jstests/sharding/change_stream_update_lookup_collation.js
• jstests/sharding/change_stream_error_label.js
• jstests/sharding/change_streams_new_shard_new_database.js
• jstests/sharding/change_stream_resume_from_different_mongos.js
• jstests/sharding/change_streams/resume_change_stream.js
• jstests/sharding/change_streams_update_lookup_shard_metadata_missing.js
• jstests/sharding/change_stream_update_lookup_read_concern.js
• jstests/sharding/change_streams/resume_change_stream_from_stale_mongos.js
• jstests/sharding/change_streams_primary_shard_unaware.js
• jstests/sharding/change_streams.js
• jstests/sharding/change_streams_whole_db.js
• jstests/sharding/change_stream_lookup_single_shard_cluster.js
• jstests/sharding/change_stream_shard_failover.js

This ticket also encompasses assert.soon() failures related to change streams in the multiversion suite:

• jstests/multiVersion/genericChangeStreams/change_streams_read_oplog_after_downgrade.js (task)
• jstests/multiVersion/genericChangeStreams/change_streams_multi_version_cluster.js (task)

See also SERVER-55076