We should be able to see in $currentOp output the state a transaction is in (started, aborted, prepared, etc), and how long it has been in that state. In particular we should distinguish between "aborting"/"preparing"/"committing" (commands for those states have been issued, but not yet finished) and the normal in-progress state. We should also include why we are waiting in these states (e.g. we may be waiting for RSTL acquisition).

We should also add stats counters to FTDC for the aborting/preparing/committing states.