Collection validation should be skipped when shutting down recipient nodes removed from a replica set

In serverless js test shard_split_concurrent_reconfig.js, we remove recipient nodes from donor replica set with reconfig command and then we shut down recipient nodes. During shutting down these nodes, the collection validation will throw an exception if the node status is changed from SECONDARY to REMOVED after passing no primary or secondary check.

We should skip the collection validation in this case.