When we restart a node we normally wait for the first connection to that node to be healthy. We do that wait with the unbridged connection. However, the bridge can sometimes become confused during a restart and return a "stale" disconnection to the next command which comes up. We should be able to work around this by, if using a bridged test, making sure the bridged connection works after waiting for the unbridged connection.

It should be possible to turn this off with an option.