Refresh after chunk migration commit may not see the committed metadata

The chunk migration logic uses the CatalogCache to refresh the metadata after issuing the commit against the config server. SERVER-33954 uncovered that the catalog cache's "WithRefresh" methods are not causally consistent and because of this, it is possible that a refresh after chunk migration commit could join a concurrent refresh and not see its own changes.

This should be backported together with SERVER-36132.