Improve deletion of config.chunks entries with hint and retries

SERVER-57221 highlighted performance problems on deletes for collections with more than one secondary index, showing that using an index hint can lead to better performance.

As collections may have a lot of chunks:

• Extend the catalog client in order to optionally accept an optional hint as argument for removing config documents.
• Update the delete chunks call to pass a proper hint.
• As NetworkInterfaceExceededTimeLimit can be hit in case of slow deletes, implement a retry logic for this specific case (just needed for legacy path, since SERVER-57311 is addressing the problem for DDL coordinators).